Of all things, the book is called “Tickle My Tush”, Mild to Wild Analplay Adventures for Everybooty. Written by Dr. Sadie Allison.

This is the first of Dr. Sadie Allison’s books I have ever read. Bottom line, (pun intended) I LOVED IT!

She approaches and covers the area of anal play with a calmness, comfortable, safe and very erotic way. I was very happy with the accompanying illustrations. They were helpful, reassuring, real and made me feel comfortable. I myself love anal play, but not with everyone, as not everyone does it well. I requires listening to your partner.

I highly recommend this book to ‘everybooty.’

Well done Dr. Sadie Allison!!!!

All I wanted to do was a little research on spanking.

I came across a lovely little blog, that certainly meets my approval of spanking. Not only are the pictures beautiful, but they are from the good old days. I love how the bodies of women in those vintage days proudly display the upturned beautiful plump bottom. A real woman.

Then before you know it, I am in my bedroom with my jeans down, and my fleece off, and I find myself masturbating with my toys to the most delicious spanking fantasy.

So, go ahead, and look it over. Perhaps you will enjoy your own spanking fantasy. Perhaps you and I can even talk about it in the future.

You know what a good listener I am.

www.vintagespank.com

Boy, did I need that.

― Neil Gaiman

– Edward Whittemore

December is here. And so are times of reflections. When I came across this saying, I found it really put many of my memories and thoughts in place.

We are all adding to our tapestry every time we touch one another.

Memories.

I have the most beautiful tree this year. However, I suspect each year I have a tree, I must say that. I don’t put a tree up each and every year. If I am traveling in the month of December, I won’t put one up.

The memories that can wash over you with each and every ornament that you unwrap and put on the tree.

It really is a wonderful, sometimes sad, pleasing, happy thing, these memories, to feel each year.

My tree is beautiful.

There are so many knowledgeable, and downright sexy sex bloggers out there. I am honored to be a part of them.

Rori of Between My Sheets, does an amazing  job of reading, reading, and reading all of our work.

Enjoy the list of the top 100 sex bloggers of 2011.

Have great fun looking them over.

The air is cold and can be windy. There have been some snowstorms, at least here. The leaves are all down, raked, and mulched. I have put my dearly loved and cared for gardens to bed. I have much of the abundant harvest canned, dried, frozen, and vinegars to enjoy for the rest of the year, and for giving as Christmas gifts.

Now I can enjoy my favorite holiday, which is Thanksgiving.
Lest you think my love of fantasy tangles with my sense of reality, fear not. I do not live in the Norman Rockwell Thanksgiving. While I love the fantasy of family perfection, alas, it does not exist. Family, people, us, we are all very complicated. But living in the moment, of what is happening right now, not the past, nor the future, is where my calmness of Thanksgiving is found. None of us has perfection in our lives. And that is real life my dear. It is how we love ourselves, our family and how we come to terms with what our roles are in the family, our world and with ourselves.

I hope your Thanksgiving is full of the foods, people, and memories that you want. It is what we make it to be.

I need to say, that here in this world of fantasy, our world of you and I, that I am so grateful for the opportunity to be a part of your life, and to have you be a part of mine. Our threads are forever woven into our tapestry. It matters not whether we have spoken once, or weekly. We have touched. I thank you for that. I thank you for what you give to me.