The Phone Courtesan


My goodness how our world has changed. It is a lot to digest.

My last post centered on a delicious erotic indulgence, (basically me)¬†ūüėȬ†and I was so looking forward to the end of our dreary winter hibernation.

Now we all find ourselves right back into hibernation, only this time for our own health and safety of others, we must comply.

Most importantly, I wish good health for you, and your families. Please practice the recommended social distancing, and stay home as much as you can.

We are finding new ways to be distantly social, and still stay safe. Keep up the good work. This gives us more time with our fur babies, walks, movie binging, and the humans that you hold dear to you in your life.

The irony of this social distancing is that’s always been the epitome of my livelihood. As you know,  You and I practice social distancing every time we share ourselves with each other. It is that masking safety net in our erotic world we’ve created so we can allow ourselves to share the deepest most private parts of ourselves.

Having said that, this new CDC recommendation of social distancing, truly does keep you and I apart, even at our level of enjoyment. You have no more privacy, you‚Äôre not traveling, and therefore we cannot speak with one another. This is¬†incredibly frustrating, on many levels. ūüėČ

Please take good care of yourself, and know I am thinking of you.

Know I am very much looking forward to our re-connecting…



It was recently said to me, that I was an indulgence


* a gratification of desire

* an occasion of when you allow someone or yourself to have something enjoyable

* giving way to one’s desires

* giving yourself something that you don’t need

Self Indulgence:

* indulging in one’s own desires, passions, whims, etc.

* to have or do the things you enjoy very much

I confess, looking at an Indulgence in this light, makes me feel very special.
Finally the daylight is longer, and this dreary hibernation of winter is coming to a happy ending.

So looking forward to Indulgences



You are not alone in Your thoughts

Ever feel alone in your desires, fetishes, kinks?

You are not alone  . . .

Your wonderfully erotic thoughts are yours and mine to enjoy together.

Explore and embrace your desires…

I am here.

2020, Looking Forward, Allowing Arousal

In less than two days it is 2020. Seriously?
Where does time go? It’s frightening how quickly it passes. I’m watching my grandchildren becoming adults. Trying very hard to wrap my head around that.

Reflection is good and important. Albeit, it can sometimes be a bit sad. Reflecting shows us our growth, gratefully reminds us of what we forgot we had successfully accomplished, and helps us revisit what we need to continue working on. Ughhh, the growing pains of adulthood.

Even more reason to give attention to our sexual selves. We can’t allow that horny, excited, creative part of ourselves to become marred inside the muddy waters of real life. Remember to keep that delicious private part of yourself awake. Allow arousal to take you.

Let me take you. Let me be the guardian of your fantasies.  Let me join you.
I look forward to our naughty, sexy, lovingly erotic moments of 2020.

End of Life
December 24, 2019, 6:33 pm
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Not only am I honored possessing the fantasies you whisper to me…

I am left in awe of our shared experience when you die. I’ve lost many of you over the years. It shatters my heart each time. I remind myself that I was the the fortunate one who knew the deep places, desires and sensual dreams of yours that you shared with no one else.
You are so very missed…and I can share my grief and sorrow at your passing with no one.


I am honored to be the guardian of your whispered fantasies.

You allow me the pleasures of knowing your private thoughts and desires.

I may sometimes take control of your whispered confidences, or I am happy to tag along as you guide our erotic adventure together.

Our journey is our own. Thank you for trusting me with your whispered fantasies…

The Season of the Witch

BreastsJust a reminder….Witches are oh so powerful…


My Pleasure

My pleasure is your pleasure.

I derive a lot of my pleasure watching, listening and controlling others.

It gives me great pleasure to see how you react to me, my voice, and our time together.

My orgasms come from you.

A Rainy Day Thought

It’s another rainy day.

Saturday, typically a day for errands. Might I suggest that the most important errand on a chilly never ending dark rainy day, is that we return to bed naked, snuggle in the down comforter, and watch each other pleasure ourselves?

Masturbating together…just a rainy day thought.

Autumnal Release

…a characteristic of, or occurring in autumn…

The shocking brisk¬†surprise of cooler mornings and nights, the changing sunshine, vibrant leaf coloring, leaves falling, sometimes raining down¬†when it is windy, squirrels frantic in winter preparations, mums, asters, pumpkins and squash, root vegetables, baking resumes, pasta dishes, home made hot soups, evenings becoming darker sooner, hot tea in the afternoons, fighting the urge to not yet give in and turn the heat on, soft warm sweaters, finding those comfy long sleeve shirts¬†you’ve not seen since¬†last year…so many lovely signs that the seasons are changing.

Our bodies feel it. The cooler snuggle down in the blankets¬†weather, and the permeating darkness that begins to take over our days…pulls on us to slow down, want to go to bed earlier, and we struggle to get out of bed in the morning.

Is it any surprise that darker cooler days can lead to needing warmer connection? One obvious solution, great hot sex. Reality, not all of us mammals have that option available to us. But we can all masturbate. I love that word. A truly satisfying way to give that needed self love and care. Nothing warms the body, soul, and self like feeling alive sexually, connecting us to thousands of years of the ever evolving sensual life giving force of our planet. Sex is a natural relaxant bringing us back to ourselves. How fucking satisfying it is to feel yourself worked up to a physical release. We sleep better, think better, certainly feel better.

We know ourselves well. Touching, slowly enticing, encouraging to excite. Feel yourself grow harder, letting your cock spring into the life force it is meant to be. Now you can give your growing hardness your full attention, stroking gently for teasing, or faster answering the demand. Slowing down, making it last longer, letting yourself ride on the wave of the self control you try to maintain. You have choices with self care. You can masturbate with a frenzy and ejaculate hard. You can slowly masturbate, and tease that erection, into a deeper intense release. I love watching you stroke your cock.  I love watching you masturbate.

I thank you for allowing me to join you while you are masturbating. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to masturbate with you. Sharing mutual self love is a warming thought indeed.