The Phone Courtesan


I had such grandiose ideas of a 2021 posting…

I heard a perfect saying recently. The days can be so long, and the years just fly by. I feel that.

By the time I wanted to write again, our nations politics continues to rear its ugly head. No politics here. Just breathe.

I truly believe everyone needs to masturbate and calm the fuck down, she said in her sexy voice.

My wish, is that you stay safe, stay healthy, and remember I am here to help you enjoy ourselves.

Autumnal Sun

The sun is surprisingly hot beating heat through the windows, while outside is the cool crisp reminder that the air still belongs to autumn.

A hot cup of apple cider gently spiked with brandy…

A relaxing afternoon…

Sweet masturbation…

Autumn Sex
November 21, 2020, 2:33 pm
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Cooler mornings. Cooler evenings. Wrapping our heads around the abrupt darkness arriving far too early in our day. However, it slows us down, as hibernation is meant to.

The autumn vibrancy of colors in the sunrise and sunsets, are ripe with oranges and golden hues.

Slowing us down…not just our mammal bodies, but our sexual selves. Enjoy taking longer to make love, to masturbate. Warm yourself with purposeful deeper reaching touches and teasings.

Don’t rush…it’s a long darker time ahead…

Autumn’s Undressing

Those colors of autumn.
While I was watching the winds undress the leaves from the trees, I confess a sadness watching the colors being taken and pulled away from such stoic wooden skeletons. The easily discarded vibrant shades of rusts, purples, yellows, reds, golds, oranges, greens, and burgandy that are now making the most beautiful forestland carpet.
I watched as the breeze gently and sometimes roughly swayed each branch up and down, and back and forth forcing its strength upon the branches. I soon realized I was privy to a very private sensual dance in nature. Private, right out in the open? Yes. Because how often do we actually stop and take the time to watch autumn undress?
It was quite sexy seeing the trees nakedness slowly revealed. I didn’t see it as a woman undressing for her lover. I saw it more as the dramatic exaggerated dance of a sexy burlesque performer slowly revealing herself, knowing your eyes were glued to each movement but you could never touch her. She, that magnificent tree was in total control of the show.
Appreciate the swirling leaves, the release of color, and especially the letting go, knowing that it’s the beginnings of a long hibernation leading to renewal.

Slowly disrobing

Autumnal Delights Await

I cannot begin to wrap my head around many of the long term results we are all now dealing with in our world. Covid 19, deaths of friends and relatives, loss of jobs, incomes, loss of ourselves, loss of companionships, political climate, racial climate, looting destruction, shootings, climate change, fires in so many states: Colorado, California, Washington, Oregon…it can all feel so hopeless.

This is not to make light of any of the aforementioned issues we all are experiencing, and have touched each of us in a myriad of ways. I simply feel the need to remind myself/us of some more pleasant hopeful moments as autumn approaches.

A change of seasons is upon us. Autumn arrives this month. Take a moment to incorporate any and all of these simple very human pleasing activities.

And then of course after enjoying some apple cider and decorating, there are other pleasures in the new crisp air to be reminded of. There is a different sensuality to be discovered in each season. We should listen to and honor our bodies as they respond to changes in the earth’s temperatures, or adapting to more or less light and darkness. We find we are either craving warmth and adding quilts to beds and layers of clothing, or shedding our multiple layers, sleeping naked in sheets and embracing the warmth.
Allow autumn to influence your sensuality and in turn enhance your sexuality. It is natural, soothing and healing to keep our bodies one with nature. Languish in those quilts. Having layers of clothing to remove is erotic. Sip those warm drinks, and masturbate. Alone and together. Relearn you’re body and your partner’s. Take your time. Slow dow. Savor and enjoy those moments.
Not only is it the season when our bodies are desirous to begin hibernation, but all that is happening around us warrant our attentions and are reminders to take full advantage in those moments, make memories, be appreciative, be kind to others and ourselves. This date alone is a stark reminder that life is short, and control is indeed an illusion.

Slow down. Embrace your sensual sexual self…


My goodness how our world has changed. It is a lot to digest.

My last post centered on a delicious erotic indulgence, (basically me) 😉 and I was so looking forward to the end of our dreary winter hibernation.

Now we all find ourselves right back into hibernation, only this time for our own health and safety of others, we must comply.

Most importantly, I wish good health for you, and your families. Please practice the recommended social distancing, and stay home as much as you can.

We are finding new ways to be distantly social, and still stay safe. Keep up the good work. This gives us more time with our fur babies, walks, movie binging, and the humans that you hold dear to you in your life.

The irony of this social distancing is that’s always been the epitome of my livelihood. As you know,  You and I practice social distancing every time we share ourselves with each other. It is that masking safety net in our erotic world we’ve created so we can allow ourselves to share the deepest most private parts of ourselves.

Having said that, this new CDC recommendation of social distancing, truly does keep you and I apart, even at our level of enjoyment. You have no more privacy, you’re not traveling, and therefore we cannot speak with one another. This is incredibly frustrating, on many levels. 😉

Please take good care of yourself, and know I am thinking of you.

Know I am very much looking forward to our re-connecting…



It was recently said to me, that I was an indulgence


* a gratification of desire

* an occasion of when you allow someone or yourself to have something enjoyable

* giving way to one’s desires

* giving yourself something that you don’t need

Self Indulgence:

* indulging in one’s own desires, passions, whims, etc.

* to have or do the things you enjoy very much

I confess, looking at an Indulgence in this light, makes me feel very special.
Finally the daylight is longer, and this dreary hibernation of winter is coming to a happy ending.

So looking forward to Indulgences



You are not alone in Your thoughts

Ever feel alone in your desires, fetishes, kinks?

You are not alone  . . .

Your wonderfully erotic thoughts are yours and mine to enjoy together.

Explore and embrace your desires…

I am here.

2020, Looking Forward, Allowing Arousal

In less than two days it is 2020. Seriously?
Where does time go? It’s frightening how quickly it passes. I’m watching my grandchildren becoming adults. Trying very hard to wrap my head around that.

Reflection is good and important. Albeit, it can sometimes be a bit sad. Reflecting shows us our growth, gratefully reminds us of what we forgot we had successfully accomplished, and helps us revisit what we need to continue working on. Ughhh, the growing pains of adulthood.

Even more reason to give attention to our sexual selves. We can’t allow that horny, excited, creative part of ourselves to become marred inside the muddy waters of real life. Remember to keep that delicious private part of yourself awake. Allow arousal to take you.

Let me take you. Let me be the guardian of your fantasies.  Let me join you.
I look forward to our naughty, sexy, lovingly erotic moments of 2020.

End of Life
December 24, 2019, 6:33 pm
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Not only am I honored possessing the fantasies you whisper to me…

I am left in awe of our shared experience when you die. I’ve lost many of you over the years. It shatters my heart each time. I remind myself that I was the the fortunate one who knew the deep places, desires and sensual dreams of yours that you shared with no one else.
You are so very missed…and I can share my grief and sorrow at your passing with no one.