The Phone Courtesan


Erections are an expression
January 31, 2008, 1:03 pm
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This beautiful statement was sent to me during an email conversation with one of my men. However, it was a couple of days later, that some interesting thoughts about erections started to seep through my brain. No laughing out loud please. : ) And yes, it put erections on my mind even more so than on my regular days and nights. I will be the first to admit that erections do play a very large part of my life, as happily most of my men will acquire one through our conversations. Please note though, that not all of my men do have erections with me, nor are they meant to. Every single conversation goes down its own path, and each man is so very different and so unique.

Erections are an expression . . . I find erections fascinating. I realize that when men read this, you most likely have been enjoying your erections for years. As a woman, I love the process of making that part of your body respond to me. I love the interplay of your erection with me, and your allowing my guidance to direct your erection. Your erection is not only an expression, but a very clear reaction of my touch on you. How could a woman not revel in that sweet power she holds over that beautiful cock, and you? She can literally hold her power over you right in the palm of her hand . . . or in her mouth . . . or with her breasts . . . or in her pussy . . . or in her ass . . . as the case may be. But then, there is this venue. It allows me a very special way to hold your cock. By capturing your mind, I can capture your cock. In reality, the lesson we do learn as we get older and wiser is just how much our minds are involved in every aspect of our physical sex life.

There are so many paths I get to take you down to gain that erection. There are so many sweet ways to make your cock ache. I love being a woman. I look at your erection not only as your expression, but also as your gift to me. Your gift is your physical response to me. It is full to the brim of how you feel, how you desire, how you need, and how you throb. The reward I receive from you, is not just the knowledge that I can make you hard and I can make you cum. My excitement, is that your expression came from a new and deeper place in you, that is now mine. The power that women have over erections is mind boggling.

You give me the power to guide that erection. I think your expressions are beautiful.



Connecting with me
January 10, 2008, 8:18 pm
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One of my biggest dilemmas?

I receive wonderful email responses, and I absolutely love them. However, I have learned as I navigate through the unpredictable world of emails, that in responding to them it can sometimes be a hit and miss proposition. Your email address may not let me in.

I am hoping that if I use this venue to reach you, it may help to clear up any missed communications. Please understand how I enjoy hearing from you, whether you have written to me directly at an email address, responded to an ad, or you have responded to my blog. My dilemma, is that sometimes when I do respond back to an email, it is returned, undeliverable.

I am left with no recourse, that I am aware of. I know. By admitting that, I realize I risk letting you know the extent of my internet knowledge. Or shall we say the lack of. My hope is that if you wanted to connect with me, you will try again. Either you or I could have technical problems, or what I truly fear is that the phases of the moon were just not quite right. Therefore, blocking any hope of success in our new cyber connection.

Please, if I have not written you back, please write me again. There have been some emails that have truly touched me, and my responses to you cannot be delivered.

Help me find you. Please touch me again.



Pleasure Delayed, is Pleasure Enhanced

Story tellers know this to be true. There is a master story teller who comes to my mind. One who has captivated me since my childhood. He is so subtle about weaving the suspense around you. You listen, and you watch. You look for clues. You know his style. As each of his stories unfolds before you, he has all the answers right there. The clues are begging for you to discover them and feel the direction he is leading you in. There are the predictable moments, during which you feel secure and even have a sense of satisfaction in yourself, because you now think you have it figured out. You see the layout, you see his plan. But then, an unfamiliar even scary change of events takes place. It is a new twist. He suddenly takes you down a different path. It is unfamiliar territory to the story, but it is exciting and arousing. You begin to realize this is not going to be your typical ‘who done it’ movie. You need to pay better attention. You find his unveiling of human behavior looking right through you. There are some behaviors you recognize and embrace. There are some behaviors you know you would never participate in. And then there is that murky area of human behavior.

His work thrills me. It is not the “BOO” jump out at you, kind of scare. He builds a slow, questioning kind of fear that stirs all of the fears and worries we bury deep inside of us. He engages me. He makes me think. He makes me wonder. Mostly, he allows for my participation. I love his mind. He had a saying that explains his philosophy, beautifully.

“There is no terror in the bang. Only in the anticipation of it.” ~ Alfred Hitchcock

And now with you, it is that very philosophy I try to weave around us. We have all learned from early on, about the anticipations in life. We look forward to certain things, every day. In our time together, I want you to not only look forward to the obvious outcome that you and I will share, but I want you to truly ache with the anticipation. Through the ache there is great pleasure . . . and all though the pleasure is slowly and carefully delayed, you will learn that the pleasure is enhanced.

~ Pleasure delayed, is pleasure enhanced ~