The Phone Courtesan

The Bra is 100 years old Today
May 26, 2010, 8:55 pm
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Happy Anniversary to a very sexy part of our wardrobe.

Are you Masturbating?
May 26, 2010, 9:29 am
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While that may be a silly question, the month of May is drawing to a close. Thankfully, it is not only during the National Month of Masturbation that we can enjoy ourselves.

It feels good. It is healthy, it is pleasurable and believe it or not, everyone does it. Especially those who deny doing so.

When you take the time for yourself to enjoy your cock, you are also helping us, your partners. You are the one who knows how your cock reacts, and to what kind of stimulation. I cannot tell you how I wish Masturbation Month would turn into Mutual Masturbation Month. Obviously you would learn more about our secret place, but we women need to learn more about the cock. We need to see it, watch it, feel it, touch it and do so through your touch and your eyes.

You have lived with your cock all of your life. So, there is no mystery to you. We have nothing in our bodies that sticks out so rudely, can be so soft, so hard, so exciting, and so scary all at the same time. I honestly believe that women do not understand how the cock can sometimes rule your thinking. All jokes aside, but it is a true driving force that is innate in your body.

When you can masturbate for us, or with us, we can see your cock, and see how it reacts to and needs to be stroked, and loved, frankly almost separately from loving you. Your cock is a mystery to us. It is also very scary for many women.

I am so appreciative of men who ‘know’ their cock. Not just as a fucking tool, and for their own pleasure, but how to use it make us feel connected to your cock. When you slow down, masturbate, and learn how to share all those secrets of your cock with us, we will connect to it.

Thank you to those of you who share with us and let us learn about your cock. Thank you to those of you, who enjoy and savor your own masturbation, and know that it is not always about the orgasm, but that journey to it. Enjoy your cock. Stroke it off and on for a few days, before you allow yourself to cum. Pay attention to those peaks and valleys of arousal. Listen to your body and enjoy riding on the edge of that wave before you cum quickly.

Savor your masturbation time.

Fantasy is just so perfect for your alone and shared masturbation time. And don’t forget to tell me all about it. = )

Enjoy the final days…

The Fertile Mind
May 23, 2010, 9:21 am
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The gardener is never alone. Even if nobody else sets foot in the garden, the earth and the environment are constant companions. They change with the season, bringing new life and carrying away the old. The sun warms the shoulders on a crisp day, and the rain mists the memory as it moistens the earth. The sun, wind, soil, songbirds, earthworms and butterflies are as familiar as lifelong friends.

They brighten most days with ready camaraderie but, as occasionally occurs in friendships, also may be headstrong and contrary. Nature’s physical resources stand beside the gardener, providing the raw clay form which to mold a bed of flowers, or the processes by which those flowers need to grow.

One of a Prostitutes Many Roles
May 20, 2010, 6:23 am
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“The prostitute is not, as feminists claim, the victim of men, but rather their conqueror, an outlaw, who controls the sexual channels between nature and culture.” ~~

Camille Paglia

National Masturbation Month
May 12, 2010, 9:23 am
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Now, my first logical thought is how did we come up with a month dedicated to masturbation? = )

Lets go with that thought –

Is there a more beautiful sight than a woman who has her own hand on her pussy? It is her pussy, and she knows it so very well. Just watch how she knows where to lightly massage, where to put a bit more pressure, when to lift her hips just a bit to push forward and bring more pleasure to that now swollen and wet vulva. I love how our outer lips change. To see how the fingers gently tease open those lips and tease the inner walls of the vagina. At that moment, it is so intoxicating.

I LOVE to masturbate.

May 10, 2010, 8:48 am
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“Amoebas at the start – Were not complex; They tore themselves apart – And started to have Sex.” ~~ Arthur Guiterman

Real Women
May 3, 2010, 5:45 pm
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The Today Show this morning had an amazing announcement. Cindy Leive, Editor in Chief of Glamour Magazine claims that real women are the new sexy!

Silly me. I always thought we were.

Keep up the good work Cindy. = )