The Phone Courtesan


Spring 2013
March 20, 2013, 10:19 am
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It is sure a slow start to spring!

Or perhaps I am overly anxious for it. I feel more than my usual need for the smell of the earth, gardening, lawn mowing, warm rains, flowers blooming in my gardens, fresh veggies and fruits to pick . . . oh my. I need to slow down lest, I get too out of control. We wouldn’t want that now, would we? : )

Now if we are honest, spring is the awakening time for a lot of things. Not only does our earth awake from its long hibernating slumber, but my dear so do we. Our bodies, our rejuvenation of our minds and emotions, and our energy levels. I find that as the plants stretch to reach towards the sun, so do we. We ache for the warmth on our skin, now so grossly put as the need of Vit D. I prefer to have my skin kissed by the sun, lightly.

Last week I saw six robins!!

Less clothing, and more hard work in the yards. That is what I am hungry for.

Happy Spring!! I hope where ever you are, you are beginning to see signs of life.

Now wake up. Enjoy how your beautiful cock is responding to the want of life again, after such a cold and confining winter. : ) Masturbate. Enjoy that feeling of heat, surging through you. It not only feels good physically, remember it rejuvenates the soul. Enjoy!

And, I will look forward to having you.



Valentines Day
February 16, 2013, 6:55 am
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Well done to me! Damn!

Valentines has cum and gone, yes – pun intended. I had so intended to write on that day of all days. But alas, real life as I always say, does seem to find ways to interfere.

No, we are not Valentines per say. Allow me to explain. I believe that those who touch our lives, become entangled wit us forever. You may cum and go, we may part forever, but we have touched. Therefor, I wish you a Happy Valentines Day. My most sincere wish is for you to be good to your heart. While we are all getting older and there is that awful reality of good fats, bad cholesterol and cardio work outs, I sincerely do wish you good heart health. My own father has had many heart attacks and two open heart surgeries. That is one of the biggest reasons I became vegan. My blood work shows that for a woman of my age, boy I hate that term, my cholesterol is that of a 25 year old. Of course something else will get me, but I feel I made the right healthy heart choice for me.

The ‘other’ wish of mine for you, in being good to your heart, is not only the physical aspect of heart health, but the other important one. Your emotional heart. The one you carry through your life’s journeys. Be good to that heart. We must make the choices that bring that heart happiness. Life is short my dear ones. Seize the moments and opportunities you keep putting off until, …’later’. Take the chances, make the changes, and be brave. Sadly we all know the toxic people we have in our lives. They can drain your life’s blood from you. They put stress on your heart. While there are toxic people are in our lives we cannot always rid ourselves of them. I know. But I urge you, to take a moment for you.

I care about you, and I care for you.

I do hope your Valentines was full of sweet moments. And please, take very good care of your heart.



What Makes You Happy?
February 10, 2013, 7:07 am
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That is the first thing I read when I opened my new box.

I received an email and I have been asked to review a product. So, I said sure. It actually sounded fun to be able to try a new kind of vibrator that I honestly had never used before. Who wouldn’t say yes to that offer?

First things first. The box came very discreetly labeled and very plain Jane. That I liked. It’s not that I am embarrassed to receive a stimulating package, but frankly it is not the business of any one else if I do.

Opening the box, I found a very smartly and classy wrapped gift, for me. I actually felt like I was opening a present. The packaging was very nice. Bold feminine colors, just like I like.

Now, how much fun did I have with my new toy?

http://www.strawberryblushes.co.uk/products/We-Vibe-Thrill-Solo-Play-Vibrator.html

My package arrived before Christmas, but I wanted to spend a little time with it to see if I really liked it. I wanted to see if it felt good, fit me, fit my needs, and I could enjoy it during my own ‘me’ time, and enjoy it if I am spending time with you. Happily this little gem fit my requirements perfectly. It did fit my body. It did allow me to enjoy some much needed quality ‘me’ time. It came as a pretty gift for me, and it made me feel fabulous.

I know it might sound a little crazy, but I not only on occasion will masturbate with you, but I do enjoy masturbating all by myself. I realize that sounds like all I do is masturbate all day! Truly not the case. I live a busy life like all of you. There can be times when days have gone by and I have not had time to enjoy such solitary hedonistic pleasures. And as I have said many times, I need to take my own advice I share with you. When we masturbate, it is not always about sexual pleasure and release. It is mostly about relaxing, and releasing stress. Our whole body and psyche will react to an orgasm. It rejuvenates our soul when we cum. So bottom line, I think we should all cum as often as we can.

Having said that, try this little pleasure. Yes, possibly for yourself, or as a gift for someone you want to see masturbating more often too.



Flannel Sheets
January 8, 2013, 6:19 am
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Snow on the ground for the last month.

Freezing frigid temperatures.

Sleeping naked in flannel sheets – warm comforting bliss.



Our Ways
December 19, 2012, 8:34 pm
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I must say I seem to be doing a lot of reflecting over my last year. It is after all that time of year. And we seem to be surrounded, if not bombarded by the memories of the last year and in the process of closing it down, while we are expected to embrace yet another new year, just around the corner. Most memories are a delight to recall, some are truly bittersweet.

For me, for us, in our world here, I thank you. We have a nice combination of reality, fantasy, appreciation, and we have respect for one another.

I thank you.

Plus, aren’t we the lucky ones to also get to enjoy some very hot sexy loving companionship?

I love our ways.



Thanksgiving 2012
November 22, 2012, 9:48 am
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Happy Thanksgiving!

Life can be busy and family can be complicated. And frankly I find there is simply not enough time in the day to accomplish everything I want to or need to do. While these statements sound like complaints, they are masked blessings.

And then there are our lives, here in this private world we enjoy. That too is also a blessing to me. I am so thankful for each and every one of you that share my time and a place in my life. We can share our most private selves, and I learn from all of you.

Thank you for being a part of my tapestry that is constantly weaving a beautiful picture of my journey.

May you enjoy your time of reflection, counting your blessings with your own family and friends that add to your tapestry and are with you on your journey.



The Waning Days of Autumn
November 9, 2012, 7:33 am
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Yes, it is true. Autumn is leaving us.

Here the days are being replaced with much cooler weather, and intermittent wet snow is making its appearance with the promise of coming here to stay.

The days are getting darker sooner, my Thanksgiving dinner menu is being planned, and my beautiful pumpkins that decorate for the fall are freezing and thawing, and looking a bit sad.

I am finding the early darkness a bit startling, but I know I will soon accept the inevitable.

I have been warned about winter, the cold and the snows in my new state of Wisconsin. I believe I am looking forward to the ‘hunkering down for the winter’ feeling. These mid west people are pretty strong. We’ll see how well I take it.

I do find my thoughts, dare I say fantasies, wandering to snuggling under blankets, sharing wine, old movies, and at bedtime being naked together under a mountain of blankets.

Of course tea in the parlor in the afternoons is nice too . . .