The Phone Courtesan

Real Lives, Both Sides
August 18, 2019, 12:35 pm
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In my chosen livelihood spontaneity is an agreed delicious component. Albeit not always easy to make happen.

While we both enjoy our fantasy, alas we both have real lives. There are simply times I am not available at a moments notice. Frustrating. But, then again should I find myself in the mood for you and our ways together you are not available to me. Frustrating. Ahh, the nature of our seductive beast we have both played a part in creating.

I love our time together. I love our sex together. I love how you can take me into worlds that are ours, and ours alone. Thank you, thank you.

I realize my callers cum and go. Yes, pun intended. By the way, during the next football game you watch, listen for all the sexual innuendos…I admit thoroughly enjoying that. Anyway as was saying, my life, your life, and with our increasing ages, some of our life changes will be requiring much of our time and energies. And that my folks is just life. We both know that Great sex, that takes us away from it all and allows for a bit of hedonistic me time,  does require extra time and extra energies. I thank you for understanding the space I sometimes need. Just as I understand your need to be elsewhere in your life, or even the need to discontinue our relationship. We all change. I hope you know that I always think of you, and always hope everything is well in your life. As for me, should I ever quit adding this wondrous sexual aspect to my life, I will let it be known to you.

If you have moved on, I wish you well and great contentment in your life.

Oh, and of coarse a life full of fabulous sex.

The Life Force of a Female
August 17, 2019, 10:45 pm
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The life force of a female should be intoxicating. Everyone knows Females are a formidable force of nature. There was a time only female names were used to announce a new hurricane. But, men are slowly catching up, as you too have been given that torrential badge of honor.

Personally I take pleasure in being a force to be reckoned with. It lends ones self to being unpredictable and mysterious. It also allows for women to be quite powerful calling on and using those energies.

The life force of a female. If women are genuinely in touch with themselves, honoring their bodies and intuition we can be in a state of powerful control. I savor the balance I find between nature and nurture. From bare feet reconnecting us to mother earth, to sipping wine on my back deck as I watch how the moon caresses my pond. And All the little natural pleasures I find daily as I walk on this beautiful sensually energizing planet we call earth only add to my confidence. Balance of nature and our crazy world, is hugely vital.

The life force of a female. Owning my self assurance, while listening to your body, your ways, your desires and needs…that is the power that feeds me. I enjoy knowing I can influence and direct you on our journey together. If all women would simply claim their own internal sex goddess my goodness, I’m not sure you would know what to do with us.



Winter Time
December 14, 2015, 8:23 am
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Sleeping naked in flannel sheets……

Need I say more?

June 4, 2015, 7:09 am
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June is here. Half of our year has come and is going…

June, when all the seedlings you expect to see come to life are all carefully plotted and planted, and you are lovingly tending to them, watching as they grow, stretch and begin to give to you. The truest vision of the fruits of your labor.

You do realize that as you masturbate you are lovingly tending to yourself. Learning about you, relaxing yourself, and nourishing yourself.

Allow the month of June to reclaim your sexual self, and feed it. Nourish it. Embrace it.

Winter is done. And the colder weather is mostly over. Summer is a glorious time of blooming.

May of course means Masturbation Month
May 18, 2015, 10:59 am
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My oh my it has been far too long since I have unleashed on my own blog. Is it because I am getting older, or damn, is time that fleeting?

May is Masturbation Month.

I have been fortunate to work in the sex and sexy world for over 14 years. As the years have moved on, so have I and my gentleman. I have enjoyed many of you since the beginning of my sex career. Frankly, even as new gentleman have joined with me, they are of the older more mature persuasion. Which if you know me that is what I want, as that is what I myself am. I find it is a good match together. Let me take this opportunity here to let you know that is one of the many reasons I do not do web cams. Quit asking me to. So many people out there do. Go find them.

I will be blunt. Gee, what a surprise, right? 🙂 You go through changes, as do I. It has been interesting to witness not only in my body, but to observe the sexual aging process that all of us go through. Some libidos haven’t changed, while some have even increased. Some libidos, have gone way down. Your body simply does not respond any more as your brain is wanting it to. It is not indicative of your desires changing, just your bodies lack of reaction to those desires. It is frustrating and can be confusing. I am not telling you anything you don’t know.  But, perhaps it may be a time where we can slow down, breathe deeply and enjoy the sensuousness of the moment. We are older. Our family needs, stresses and responsibilities have changed, and will affect us as well. In some ways it sucks getting older. 🙂  In some ways I embrace it. This getting older crap has meant I will have a more profound experience with my sex life. If it is less often, it is more important to me to make those fewer moments count. To stop and feel the care, the intimacy, the moment for what it is. Yes, to literally stop and smell the roses. It is not just the fuck, bump and grind. All though that is nice too.  It is the moment at hand that matters. It is the touch, the words, the visuals I can paint for me, or my partner. We may find that we need to be more active and participate in different ways we had not before.

Masturbation month. Your own private touch is the time that you allow yourself to slowly feel arousal. Feel it, own it, and let it subside. Remember, arousal is not an invitation to hurry and just cum. Let the arousal you created slip away. Then allow it to rear it’s head again, later that day or the next day. Arousal is an erotic and beautiful journey to allow your body to feel and sweetly ache. Try building anticipation and letting it simmer in you. Tease yourself. Let that arousal build in you. Play with your body. Listen to your body. Listen to your erection. Listen to your cock.

And, I will look forward to enjoying you.

Talk About Hot Peppers. Note To Self…
August 22, 2014, 10:40 pm
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Before I masturbate, I must either wait a bit, or remember to wear those damn little white gloves when I am picking and processing my peppers. Surprise, surprise.

The Impulse of the Cock…
July 26, 2014, 3:38 pm
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…can be more viscous when not taken care of, than even women can be with one another.

While I am busy with real life, and truly simply cannot take every call, know, I appreciate your understanding. But, I have had some new ones, and sadly for them, their timing could not have been worse. It was while I had family visiting.
Their behavior shows that they are not going to be the kind of man I want to spend my precious time with. Yes I said precious, as I have learned even more harshly recently, that the way we spend our time, who we spend our time with, and the choices we make with our time can be more important than anything else we do.
I have enjoyed my chosen profession for over 13 years. If you and I have known one another for any length of time, you know me. As I know you. I am yours. I am sexy. 🙂 I try hard to understand and know you, I try hard to be there when you need me, I care very much about pleasing you, and I do sincerely enjoy our time together.
And I am thankful for everyone of you I ‘connect’ with. You are a treasure to me, and my life. You give me what I need. You fulfill all the sexual parts in me that need to be fed.

So, forgive me, this once – Just a rant…Sometimes even the best of women have things to get off their chests. 🙂