The Phone Courtesan


May of course means Masturbation Month
May 18, 2015, 10:59 am
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My oh my it has been far too long since I have unleashed on my own blog. Is it because I am getting older, or damn, is time that fleeting?

May is Masturbation Month.

I have been fortunate to work in the sex and sexy world for over 14 years. As the years have moved on, so have I and my gentleman. I have enjoyed many of you since the beginning of my sex career. Frankly, even as new gentleman have joined with me, they are of the older more mature persuasion. Which if you know me that is what I want, as that is what I myself am. I find it is a good match together. Let me take this opportunity here to let you know that is one of the many reasons I do not do web cams. Quit asking me to. So many people out there do. Go find them.

I will be blunt. Gee, what a surprise, right? 🙂 You go through changes, as do I. It has been interesting to witness not only in my body, but to observe the sexual aging process that all of us go through. Some libidos haven’t changed, while some have even increased. Some libidos, have gone way down. Your body simply does not respond any more as your brain is wanting it to. It is not indicative of your desires changing, just your bodies lack of reaction to those desires. It is frustrating and can be confusing. I am not telling you anything you don’t know.  But, perhaps it may be a time where we can slow down, breathe deeply and enjoy the sensuousness of the moment. We are older. Our family needs, stresses and responsibilities have changed, and will affect us as well. In some ways it sucks getting older. 🙂  In some ways I embrace it. This getting older crap has meant I will have a more profound experience with my sex life. If it is less often, it is more important to me to make those fewer moments count. To stop and feel the care, the intimacy, the moment for what it is. Yes, to literally stop and smell the roses. It is not just the fuck, bump and grind. All though that is nice too.  It is the moment at hand that matters. It is the touch, the words, the visuals I can paint for me, or my partner. We may find that we need to be more active and participate in different ways we had not before.

Masturbation month. Your own private touch is the time that you allow yourself to slowly feel arousal. Feel it, own it, and let it subside. Remember, arousal is not an invitation to hurry and just cum. Let the arousal you created slip away. Then allow it to rear it’s head again, later that day or the next day. Arousal is an erotic and beautiful journey to allow your body to feel and sweetly ache. Try building anticipation and letting it simmer in you. Tease yourself. Let that arousal build in you. Play with your body. Listen to your body. Listen to your erection. Listen to your cock.

And, I will look forward to enjoying you.



Everything’s Coming Up . . .
May 31, 2011, 7:59 pm
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. . . well, no roses, but lots of kale, spinach, lettuce, beans, onions and tons of other veggies and herbs.

Yes, I was speaking of the garden, as it is my sanctuary. However, being the month of May full of extra masturbation, I am hopeful that other things popped up too – for some sunshine, fresh air and a good flexing of the muscles. Yes, I do mean your cock.

Being as this is a blog used primarily for sexual thoughts, I suspect thoughts of gardening are not high on the list. But, as I have written before, I find gardening very sensual and erotic. So, here are some sexy pictures.



A Life of its Own

I would imagine that since we are all adults now, that you have all ready known this about your cock for a long time. I find your cock fascinating to watch. And, in the beginning it had to have been fascinating for you too. Yet, I can only imagine how many inopportune times that your cock really took on a life of its own.

While you are getting aroused and hard, that is how it looks to me. It is as if your cock is a separate entity, a body part demanding equal attention and respect. It has needs that can override all thoughts and processing. If it is perhaps one of those inopportune times, you can usually eventually divert its attention, with promises to come out and play at a later time.

When you finally can allow your cock to become hard and receive the recognition it is demanding, how alluring and enticing he becomes. It begs for your mindful diligence, your guidance, your direction.

At least you think you are the one steering the hardness, but in reality your cock is proving once again that it has a life of its own.



The Weekend
May 7, 2011, 7:44 am
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Saturday and Sunday.

There is such a different feel to our time when it is the weekend.

Perhaps you get to linger a little longer in bed in the morning. Perhaps you can lay on the couch and relax in the afternoon. Perhaps you can lay outside in a hammock and relax.

The weekend will often allow us to feel we can stop our regular pace and relax, hence we can feel more inclined to accept the sexual feeling to cum through.

Yes, the weekend. Let yourself just relax and enjoy some quiet sexy private time. Allow yourself to become rock hard, and play with your cock. You know what I mean. Tease yourself into a hardness, even letting the hardness subside, and perhaps doing that a few times – until you just can’t wait any longer and then need to really stroke and pump on that beautiful hard erect cock you have developed.

Allow your body to enjoy your weekend.

After all, it is the month of May.



Mutual Masturbation

How beautiful those two words are.

Doesn’t masturbating in front of our partner also feed that taboo voyeur in us all? How sexy to know that you are sharing yourself, giving yourself and allowing someone to watch how fucking hot you are feeling.

I love watching men masturbate. I love seeing you stroke your cock. I can see the hardness grow. I love seeing the wetness of your cock. It tells me just how hot you are feeling.

Stroke it a little bit more. Slowly – enjoy the entire length of your cock. Make it feel good for me. Touch me with that wet cock head. I want to feel that wet cock head rubbed all over my body. I want to see your cock rubbed on my inner thighs, my pussy, and down over onto my ass.

Now, pay attention to how wet your masturbating gets my pussy. I feed off of you. I watch you and it makes me hotter. I can feel the changes in my pussy – the wetness, my outer lips swell, and the need to move in a rhythm.

How fucking wonderful to spread my legs and share that with you.

I love making your cock hard.



‘What a Huge Mess’
April 20, 2011, 2:48 pm
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Please know when I hear those words, I will take that as the highest of compliments.

As you know the out cum of your cock, is very important to me.

What a wonderful mess to have to deal with.



The Caretaker of the Cock
December 7, 2010, 10:45 am
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Just how lucky are we women? We are the caretaker of the cock.

Sex is a conversation, and how can you have that conversation with out caring for the cock.

I have a confession. The cock scared me. When I first discovered there was a cock, I remember feeling completely taken over by it. Almost mesmerized. I mean think about it, I don’t have one. I never knew how it must be to have one, touch one, feel it. I suspect it is like trying to put yourself in our place and understanding our pussy.

I had a wonderful first boyfriend. He let me hold, kiss, suck, taste, stroke, and fuck as much as I wanted to. Wasn’t that nice of him? = ) Now, I say fuck – because as wonderful and as safe as he made me feel, it wasn’t deep love or love making at that age. I just couldn’t get enough of the ‘how’ and ‘why’ – the cock changes. I loved learning about it. I loved discovering more ways that would make his cock listen to me. I learned early on that I loved the power I could feel in making that cock react.

Now older and oh so much more wise, I know that cock is a beautiful extension of a total person. And that cock while connected to a person does have a mind of his own. You are plagued with this sweet appendage always wanting to be touched, acknowledged and pleasured.

I am no longer scared of the cock. I am happy that I now know I am the caretaker of the cock. I revel in the power of what I know I can make you feel. I love caring for cock. The beautiful part in caring for the cock, is that I can care for you.