The Phone Courtesan


A Woman’s Breasts
August 18, 2019, 12:52 pm
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Yes, before you even ask…this is me.

I came across this Old picture, and remembered how I love this bra. Black is always sexy. Lacey design is always sexy. Frankly breasts are sexy.

What would a phone sex blog be without a sexy racy picture once in awhile? Wink Wink.

You’re welcome. Enjoy. And have a great Sunday.



Real Lives, Both Sides
August 18, 2019, 12:35 pm
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In my chosen livelihood spontaneity is an agreed delicious component. Albeit not always easy to make happen.

While we both enjoy our fantasy, alas we both have real lives. There are simply times I am not available at a moments notice. Frustrating. But, then again should I find myself in the mood for you and our ways together you are not available to me. Frustrating. Ahh, the nature of our seductive beast we have both played a part in creating.

I love our time together. I love our sex together. I love how you can take me into worlds that are ours, and ours alone. Thank you, thank you.

I realize my callers cum and go. Yes, pun intended. By the way, during the next football game you watch, listen for all the sexual innuendos…I admit thoroughly enjoying that. Anyway as was saying, my life, your life, and with our increasing ages, some of our life changes will be requiring much of our time and energies. And that my folks is just life. We both know that Great sex, that takes us away from it all and allows for a bit of hedonistic me time,  does require extra time and extra energies. I thank you for understanding the space I sometimes need. Just as I understand your need to be elsewhere in your life, or even the need to discontinue our relationship. We all change. I hope you know that I always think of you, and always hope everything is well in your life. As for me, should I ever quit adding this wondrous sexual aspect to my life, I will let it be known to you.

If you have moved on, I wish you well and great contentment in your life.

Oh, and of coarse a life full of fabulous sex.



The Life Force of a Female
August 17, 2019, 10:45 pm
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The life force of a female should be intoxicating. Everyone knows Females are a formidable force of nature. There was a time only female names were used to announce a new hurricane. But, men are slowly catching up, as you too have been given that torrential badge of honor.

Personally I take pleasure in being a force to be reckoned with. It lends ones self to being unpredictable and mysterious. It also allows for women to be quite powerful calling on and using those energies.

The life force of a female. If women are genuinely in touch with themselves, honoring their bodies and intuition we can be in a state of powerful control. I savor the balance I find between nature and nurture. From bare feet reconnecting us to mother earth, to sipping wine on my back deck as I watch how the moon caresses my pond. And All the little natural pleasures I find daily as I walk on this beautiful sensually energizing planet we call earth only add to my confidence. Balance of nature and our crazy world, is hugely vital.

The life force of a female. Owning my self assurance, while listening to your body, your ways, your desires and needs…that is the power that feeds me. I enjoy knowing I can influence and direct you on our journey together. If all women would simply claim their own internal sex goddess my goodness, I’m not sure you would know what to do with us.

 

 



Cum What May
November 12, 2013, 1:39 pm
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Boy, do I suck at keeping up with my blog. I hope to hell, I don’t suck quite so much at sucking. 🙂 Which I do enjoy, as I do so enjoy my writing time, but alas, time for both are desperately lacking in my real life. This will most likely not be my sexiest blog writing.

I am hoping to give you a sense of how crazy and busy my life has been lately. I need you to understand your role and why my time with you is so vital to me. Yes, vital. YOU are my sex life. Quite an admission, and a confession. A true phone sex queen would/should have made up that I am getting fucked every night, having wild orgy parties, (insert panting breath here) threesomes, enjoying women, bondage, and my oh my what I would give to receive a good spanking. The last statement, being genuine.

Reality – Family, relationships and the many layers involved in those two words, our children, our parents, bills, mortgages, homes, home repairs, worries, losing friends, family members, cancer, too many things to do – and never enough time . . . woe, woe, woe.

Another reality – While I will be the first (yep, I’ll say it) to admit that some insane thoughtless family members on a regular basis drive me absolutely batty – but, I do have a family. I have a few genuine relationships in my life, and while they take work to maintain, they are relationships that are dear to me, and worth every second of my commitment to them. I do have a home – and all the belaboring responsibilities that go with it, but I have a home that I love that is mine. I do have worries – every day. Most likely the same ones as you have. I have lost dear friends this last year. But, I do have friends. I hate cancer. It’s random attacks on people that we love, is not a fair war. To stand by watching a family member fight it with a courage and strength that I was humbled to witness and had no idea such resolve and determined fight resided inside such a young body. As a helpless bystander, I am pissed. I am scared. I am numb. I am angry. I have resolved. As only Pooh can say, “How lucky am I to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.” Silly I know, being from Pooh, but it helped. And no, I will never have enough time in my day. Or nights. In a genuine full life there are many joys and great sorrows. At the end of the day, I believe that must mean, I am lucky enough to have a full life.

Our Fantasies – sustain me. You give me a respite from life. Your touches give me hope. You make me feel good. You allow me to make you feel good – and I remember that I can still do that for others.

Now, while I may have made you feel sorry for me – have no pity on me. We all make our choices. I am very happy in my life. I am content. And that is in a huge part because of you. The sexual variety I am so lucky to get with each and every call . . . you truly take me away to a different locale, a different kind of sex, a special moment in time. It is all ours, and ours alone.

We have an all encompassing respect, feelings of want, desire, lust and yes love and care for one another that we share, in our world we make. Thank you.

We don’t meet people by accident. They are meant to cross our paths for a reason.

I am the luckiest woman in the world.

 



Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2011

http://www.betweenmysheets.com/top-100-sex-bloggers-of-2011

 

There are so many knowledgeable, and downright sexy sex bloggers out there. I am honored to be a part of them.

Rori of Between My Sheets, does an amazing  job of reading, reading, and reading all of our work.

Enjoy the list of the top 100 sex bloggers of 2011.

Have great fun looking them over.



To the Geeks of the World
November 22, 2010, 12:01 pm
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I bow down to you!!!

A couple of weeks ago my computer acquired its first virus ever…and wow how that can mess with our technical/cyber worlds we have made for ourselves.

How a person can truly enjoy and want to be in front of a sick computer and work for hours to make it well . . . YOU Geeks are amazing. I have a new found respect for geeks.

And believe me, it is not in my nature to bow down to any one. = ))



The Big 5 0

Yes, I said it. The Big 5 0! That is me now. Saturday the 13th, I turned 50. I found approaching and turning 50 fascinating. I think I always thought of 50 as being ‘old’, and pretty close to being done with your life. Now that I am 50, that seems ridiculous. I do know I never want to go through my 20s ever again. In the beginning of adulthood there is so much to learn, decide and define about yourself. It was mid to late 30s that I really felt I was coming into my own. You know, that knowledge about yourself that you are finally secure in your own beliefs, thoughts, philosophies and that you can’t be easily persuaded by others thoughts and directions. The 40s – how liberating, or so I thought. But, it is the dawn of the 50s that I find I am even more aware. I have the confidence to know that what I feel or know, is definitely right for me. I have never been the type that wants to impart my beliefs on others, as the only way to be. And, I certainly hate having anyone force their beliefs on others.

I find am reveling in the world I have made. I gain such strength and confidence as a woman in this world of ours. I get to hear and learn of so many different thoughts, desires and fetishes. The eroticism and intimacy of that knowledge is so fucking hot to me. It is very empowering for me. I so love my work, and the fantasy worlds we can discover together. I know your secrets, and your fears. I am honored you trust me. In trusting me, I realize you have to surrender a part of yourself to me. I do know how hard that can be.

I have learned that there is no one way to have and enjoy sex. And that my dear in itself is a liberating thought. Why can’t ‘the majority’ get and accept that?

There are so many wonderful places that I get to go with you. You have all opened my sexual life. I am honored that I get to share with you your private journey. I learn so much from you.

If you can believe it, in my 20s I used to be so shy and so nervous about sex. But now, I am 50.

Thank you for going with me on my journey too.