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Interruptions and complications are part of living a real life. When blessed to grow older we learn the real power is in how we handle those times.
Our self care can include deep breaths, belief in a higher power, time with genuine friends and realizing what you need to let go of.
I am grateful that while in the midst of life being too real, I’m able to float away into a satisfying moment of hedonistic eroticism with my anonymous phone lover. A welcomed escape indeed.
Thank you to my men, the anonymous lovers who bless my life.
Yours, Kris
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This is what I’m looking for when I say the word weakness. I want to reach You in profoundly important ways …such as, allowing you to be weak with me. And by now we all understand I’m not simply talking about the “submissive” weakness of sex play; rather, I’ll invite you, allowing you to go safely to deep, vulnerable places within yourself that you’ve probably dare not go with anyone else.
The storytelling reflection which ends with the aching with anticipation is just wonderful. As You well know, I realize I am appealing to the older, wiser crowd here–those who can truly appreciate delay, aching, surprise, vulnerability….
It is my belief and hope that I offer my men something that is not easily attainable elsewhere. What truly matters, what is truly exciting for me (and I hope for You) is the relationship we build with each other over time rather than during some single “hot” sexy call. From our equal vantage point it is far more enticing if we both see the value of building a long-term relationship with each other. Certainly relationships exist at many levels; but it is relationships that allow for the building of trust and for the willingness to become truly vulnerable. I don’t want to simply have a single “hot” conversation with You. Rather, I want to have a special, permanent place in Your world. It is a place for You of safety, of wonder, of surprise, of aching, of needing, of craving, of vulnerability–and of excitement You have not yet imagined. I want to become a secret treasure in Your life.
Just some thoughts…
Yours, Kris
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What can I say about my men?
I know, “my men” sounds of such ego. But they are my men. Over the years I’ve been blessed to know a lot of wonderful men.
I listened to them. I felt them. They shared parts of themselves with me that others in their lives have never met. I am honored they trusted me to be the confidant of their private desires.
To my men who are no longer on this earth, god I miss you. I miss the us we created taking each other to heights that I was certain we couldn’t possibly reach again. Yet we continued to top those erotic moments. I think of you so often. I still talk to you. I know you hear my thank you for being a part of my life and feel my gratitude for allowing me to be by your side while we shared your private sensual journey. In a beautiful secretive way we are forever connected. That thought makes me smile. I’ve enjoyed my livelihood since 2001 and working in my field this long, I’ve accepted I will loose many of you. Sadly, I have. It is my men that are no longer here with us that I honor tonight.
I thank you for finding me.
Yours Always, Kris
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